1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect
Proverb 15:1-4 KJV
15 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.
2 The tongue of the wise useth knowledge aright: but the mouth of fools poureth out foolishness.
3 The eyes of the Lord are in every place, beholding the evil and the good.
4 A wholesome tongue is a tree of life: but perverseness therein is a breach in the spirit.
2). Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other’s keeper
Ephesians 5:12 KJV 12 For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret.
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don’t have a happy home
Proverb 15:13 KJV 13 A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken.
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them, the person who’s supposed to get rid of them is your husband
Proverb 11:22 KJV 22 As a jewel of gold in a swine’s snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion.
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Genesis 2:24 KJV
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
Ephesians 5:33 KJV 33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him
28 But charge Joshua, and encourage him, and strengthen him: for he shall go over before this people, and he shall cause them to inherit the land which thou shalt see. Deuteronomy 3:28 KJV
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband’s sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over theat duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones)
11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls
Proverb 31:23 KJV 23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don’t do that
Ephesians 4:31 KJV 31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:
14). Don’t forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out
4 A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones. Proverb 12:4 KJV
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
1 Samuel 25:3 KJV 3 Now the name of the man was Nabal; and the name of his wife Abigail: and she was a woman of good understanding, and of a beautiful countenance: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings; and he was of the house of Caleb.
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don’t waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave
Luke 21:17 17 And ye shall be hated of all men for my name’s sake.
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don’t forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home
9 And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not. Galatians 6:9 KJV
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork
Galatians 6:10 KJV 10 As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith.
21). Don’t be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife
Ephesians 4:29 KJV 29 Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn’t even know that her body needs a bath
27 Prepare thy work without, and make it fit for thyself in the field; and afterwards build thine house.Proverb 24:27 KJV
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food
14 She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar. Proverb 31:14 KJV
24). Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
Luke 11:3 KJV 3 Give us day by day our daily bread
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.
Proverb 31:11 KJV 11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
26). Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
14 The mouth of strange women is a deep pit: he that is abhorred of the Lord shall fall therein. Proverb 22:14 kjv
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable
Hebrews 13:4 kjv 4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.
Proverb 22:6 KJV 6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.
28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Proverb 31:28 KJV
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family
1 Thessalonians 5:17 KJV 17 Pray without ceasing.
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